Focusing Young Ones On Christ At Christmas: A Sure-Fire Strategy
Posted by Jaycen | Posted in Christianity, Culture, holidays, Parenting | Posted on 23-12-2011
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One of the few absolutes that I want to accomplish is for my children to know Christ and see the Gospel transform them before I take my last breath (Ephesians 5:15-6:4). While, by God’s grace, my oldest is on her way, the two younger ones are in that stage where they are like sponge. They absorb and replay everything they see and hear from mom and dad. (Sometimes not a good thing.) As the Christmas season has approached, our 4-yr old has been asking questions about many of the secular things of Christmas that she sees and hears.
While she will be the first to tell you that Christmas is about Jesus and His birth, I began to realize that it was more of “what she should do because mom and dad said so.” As I was listening to one of my newfound favorite pastors, the Lord placed something on my heart that would drive home the meaning of this season.
As Christmas falls on a Sunday this year, many Christians will allow their love of culture to supersede the Savior they claim to worship. I can hear it now, “We’d go to church, but we have our traditions…” Perhaps Burk Parsons said it best in a Tweet earlier this week when he said:
If we skip congregational worship on Christmas day, we understand neither what worship is about nor what Christmas is about. – Burk Parsons
Think about that statement for a moment. I remember the last time Christmas fell on a Sunday and we blew off service without batting an eye to open our gifts. I look back in disgust and disbelief in that ignorance. It’s not the act of going to church, it’s the purpose. This time of year is to remember that our Savior came into our world fully God, fully man (Matthew 1:18-25, Luke 2:1-14).
So here we are. Another year that Christmas falls on a Sunday and another opportunity to make the right decision. This year, not only will our family be in service, but God has shown me a way to drive home the message of Christ’s importance in our lives. As we wake, our 4-yr old will no doubted be ecstatic to tear into her gifts under the tree. However, she will have to wait until we return from service, worshiping the King of Kings before she can open them.
Will this overshadow the “magic” of Christmas morning as culture teaches?
I hope so.
Will this quell the excitement as she tears down the stairs that morning?
Absolutely.
Will it get her attention?
You bet. And it will divert to the cause of the disruption, Christ. Just as our conversion disrupts our sinful lives at conversion, so too will this disrupt what the world tells us is important at this time of year.
Why would I be such a cruel parent to do such a thing? Because as a Christian father and the responsible party for my family, I must take every opportunity to direct focus to Christ at every turn. This one was easy. It was like God throwing me a lob ball and me swinging with an oversized, fat bat. Christmas won’t fall on Sunday again until 2016 and we’re not guaranteed our next breath and only here for a short time (James 4:14), so why hesitate?
JS

